Living in Peace

My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry. James 1:19 (NIV)

What a unique Scripture verse to step into the second week of Advent—Peace! I believe that most of us desire peace at some level. We offend and are offended. Our behaviors are not always Christ-like. The thoughts we have are far from pure. There is no freedom from strife! ...Or is there? Sharon Hinck (Mornings with Jesus) shares her experience of finding peace.

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I tossed and turned at night, mentally writing an email to a family member with whom I’d had a conflict. My words would explain my position, ease the tension, and all would be well. At least that was what I told myself.

The next morning, I opened my laptop to compose the email, and I felt Jesus whisper, “Wait.” Argh! But I was ready to make her understand me.

“Why?” I asked.

Gradually Jesus helped me see my true motives. I wanted to be liked by everyone. I wanted to make myself look reasonable—be the bigger person. I wasn’t truly focused on understanding my family member or resolving the conflict at all. I wasn’t really searching for peace; I just wanted her to understand me.

I needed more time in the Word, more time at Jesus’s feet, before I was ready to write a humble note from a heart filled with compassion, my only motive being love.

James 1:19 is about being quick to listen, not only listening to a person I have conflict with but also listening to Jesus. I needed to take time to hear His perspective, His insights, and His love to gain His peace.

Later I wrote a very different email than I’d first mentally drafted. Less defensive and passive-aggressive, more compassionate and understanding. I was blessed by a response of forgiveness. Pausing to listen to Jesus made all the difference in her understanding and mine. Both of us finally had peace.

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Peace is not about making others feel good; it is about taking the necessary steps to do the right thing. Let us strive to make peace with ourselves—and others.

FAITH STEP: Next time you feel upset with someone, stop to listen to their thoughts and feelings, but also listen to Jesus’s perspective. Wait for His guidance—in the wait, you’ll find your peace.

Advent Song of Peace (Meditation)

Prince of Peace, thank You for Your guidance. Help us not to jump ahead of You. We do want peace in our lives and in this troubled world. Turning our focus to You, please teach us to do the next right thing. AMEN.